Have you ever wondered why your relationship is so painful? Things were so perfect
when you first met - what happened?
When you have just met your love, everything seems wonderful. You can't get enough
of each other. Neither of you can do any wrong in the eyes of the other. You can’t stay
for a second without holding each other’s hand. For that case even kissing and exploring
each other’s bodies. This is because you both are still on your best behaviour and you try
to please each other to extreme level. What makes this experience of love so interesting
is that you seem to have no control at all over it. It feels your life is complete with your
prince or angel.
Gradually you realize that he/she is a human being and not a prince or an angel from
different world. Now you start recognizing the flaws and shortcomings of him/her. Your
partner's little habits aren't quite as cute as they used to be earlier. Love by itself doesn’t
create all that pain you feel, it’s all the outside factors that would slowly accumulate over
a few days and make you feel miserable. Instead of getting hyper at this stage, you should
learn how to resolve conflicts and understand each other as much as you wanted to kiss
each other or explore each other in the early stage. Else, you will start feeling lonely and
that will apply sudden breaks to your relationship.
If you sustain through this phase without understanding each other then gradually, you
will feel why you are into this relationship. You will fight to draw boundaries in the
relationship, and as a result, even small annoyances become big issues. This is where
most couples have occasional or frequent thoughts of leaving the relationship. More
and more often, you start to feel like he/she is self-centered or un-caring, or even worse.
These thoughts give rise to insecurity. One day we feel we’re in love, and the next,
we’re asking ourselves if we’re still in love. An insecure relationship makes you believe
you’re in love and yet, you feel like you've broken up already. This is the time where you
need to open up with your partner in terms of your emotions and needs. Don’t be shy
in expressing about different innovative positions on bed. It can ease your stress and a
simple smile after making out can bring the passion back in your relation.
If you ignore, you will feel extremely lonely and now you will feel that you have almost
lost your partner. Jealousy takes over your mind. You may not like the fact that he/
she is hanging out with someone else and having a lot of fun, or you may just feel
insecure about losing him/her to someone else. This makes you aggressive and obsessed.
However, this will put an end to your relation. Instead, you should understand jealousy is
an expression of love and not a sign of possessiveness.
If you have managed your relation with him/her till this level, then obviously its time for
a strong commitment towards each other. You are no longer with your partner because
you need them, but because you've chosen them. You have found your true love. It’s time
for a deep passionate kiss and to enjoy the tender love forever in your life.
Can you ever forget your true love?
'Few Things Left Unsaid' by Sudeep Nagarkar is an account of how reckless and impulsive behavior can mess up your entire life. How important it is to value your love and life? The author narrates these facts of life through his protagonist, Aditya.
With Love,
when you first met - what happened?
When you have just met your love, everything seems wonderful. You can't get enough
of each other. Neither of you can do any wrong in the eyes of the other. You can’t stay
for a second without holding each other’s hand. For that case even kissing and exploring
each other’s bodies. This is because you both are still on your best behaviour and you try
to please each other to extreme level. What makes this experience of love so interesting
is that you seem to have no control at all over it. It feels your life is complete with your
prince or angel.
Gradually you realize that he/she is a human being and not a prince or an angel from
different world. Now you start recognizing the flaws and shortcomings of him/her. Your
partner's little habits aren't quite as cute as they used to be earlier. Love by itself doesn’t
create all that pain you feel, it’s all the outside factors that would slowly accumulate over
a few days and make you feel miserable. Instead of getting hyper at this stage, you should
learn how to resolve conflicts and understand each other as much as you wanted to kiss
each other or explore each other in the early stage. Else, you will start feeling lonely and
that will apply sudden breaks to your relationship.
If you sustain through this phase without understanding each other then gradually, you
will feel why you are into this relationship. You will fight to draw boundaries in the
relationship, and as a result, even small annoyances become big issues. This is where
most couples have occasional or frequent thoughts of leaving the relationship. More
and more often, you start to feel like he/she is self-centered or un-caring, or even worse.
These thoughts give rise to insecurity. One day we feel we’re in love, and the next,
we’re asking ourselves if we’re still in love. An insecure relationship makes you believe
you’re in love and yet, you feel like you've broken up already. This is the time where you
need to open up with your partner in terms of your emotions and needs. Don’t be shy
in expressing about different innovative positions on bed. It can ease your stress and a
simple smile after making out can bring the passion back in your relation.
If you ignore, you will feel extremely lonely and now you will feel that you have almost
lost your partner. Jealousy takes over your mind. You may not like the fact that he/
she is hanging out with someone else and having a lot of fun, or you may just feel
insecure about losing him/her to someone else. This makes you aggressive and obsessed.
However, this will put an end to your relation. Instead, you should understand jealousy is
an expression of love and not a sign of possessiveness.
If you have managed your relation with him/her till this level, then obviously its time for
a strong commitment towards each other. You are no longer with your partner because
you need them, but because you've chosen them. You have found your true love. It’s time
for a deep passionate kiss and to enjoy the tender love forever in your life.
About Sudeep Nagarkar:
Sudeep Nagarkar is the bestselling author of Few Things Left Unsaid & That's The Way We Met. He has a degree in Electronics Engineering from Mumbai. His books are inspired from real- life incidents. He never dreamed of becoming an author, but turned into one for his love. Apart from writing, Sudeep is a music enthusiast and loves to spend time with his friends.
Sudeep Nagarkar’s books are based on real life incidents. His first book ‘Few Things Left Unsaid’ which released last year sold above 2 lakhs making Sudeep Nagarkar one of the finest writers in India in fiction category. His recent release ‘That’s The Way We Met’ was released with huge hype all over and was an instant hit amongst the youth. His both books are topping in the best sellers lists on various websites and book stores.
Sudeep Nagarkar resides in Mumbai and has a loyal fan base who are connected with him through facebook. His books are getting translated into regional language and first book is due release in November which is translated into Marathi. He will soon interact with crowd in Bangalore literature festival to be held in December. He has given seminars in different colleges in Mumbai. His books are even appreciated by the Bollywood Legend Amitabh Bacchan.
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Aditya and Riya could never imagine life without each other. Since their accidental meeting two years ago, they have been inseparable until an unexpected tragedy promises to change the course of their lives forever. Will their love stand the test of time?
From the intoxicating rush of Mumbai and Delhi to the scenic beauty of Manali, Sudeep Nagarkar will take you on an unforgettable journey through life and love.
'Few Things Left Unsaid' by Sudeep Nagarkar is an account of how reckless and impulsive behavior can mess up your entire life. How important it is to value your love and life? The author narrates these facts of life through his protagonist, Aditya.
Few Things Left Unsaid deals with the reckless and unclear attitude confronted at a very young age. Aditya, the protagonist of the book, is one among the confused crowd. He's unclear about his ambitions or goals in life. He hates engineering from the core of his heart, but destiny has other plans for him as he ends up in an engineering college. Aditya's search for true love comes alive when he runs into Riya, but he loses her too because of his rude behavior. Life takes a U-Turn for Aditya as he doesn't know how to deal with his life now. Will he pay a huge price for messing up his life now? If he has to mend his ways, how does he do it? Aditya's reckless decisions and lack of clarity in vision mess up both Riya's and his life.
With Love,
Sudeep Nagarkar
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