Do you remember the first time you liked a girl? Or to be more precise do you remember the first time you liked opposite sex? I do. I liked my teacher when I was in 3rd Standard. For 70% of boys their first crush is their teacher. I agree mine was too early. But when we gradually go into teen age, we realize life is a mixture of good and bad experiences, happiness and sorrow, love and anger, success and failure. When feeling of love and care develops then relations of friendship take place. Often we take things for granted and don’t realize the importance until we are about to lose it or we have already lost it. Before you actually feel the pain of losing someone special, here are the few things that you can follow.
- Pamper your partner and appreciate them.
Take a moment every now and then to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend that you love him/her and no one can love to that extent in this universe. I know boys don’t like to do this often but it works. Girls love to be pampered every now and then. Appreciate your girlfriend if she is wearing a lovely dress for a party night even if she is not. Don’t be rude by saying wtf have you worn. This can result in a tight slap on your face or a kick on your….
Even girlfriends should sometime appreciate their boyfriends for their hairstyle even if they are not carrying one of the trending ones. Boys love to be praised by girls as much as girls love to be praised for their attire. Guys, you should think from your heart and not from the brains while wooing a girl. If you guys don’t believe just try this out. While traveling together just roll your fingers on your girlfriends palm and look into her eyes with all the love and care. Don’t ask me reason for this. Just do that! There is no logic behind it. She will fall for you more.
- Gifts and A good morning message
‘Gifts? Oh man, they are costly.’ Get out of this block. Your girlfriend will not demand a diamond necklace or a big house at Marine Drive. Surprise her occasionally by a candle light dinner or a red rose. Even if you introduce your girlfriend with the hottest chick of your class saying, you are in a relation that is as good as a big house at Marine Drive. Girls often get jealous with a girl who looks better than they do. So do this once or twice. Now we have facilities of scheduled messages too on our mobiles. Schedule a Good Morning message saying how much you love her. A bright smile will make her day. Small things can strengthen your relationships. You don’t need to save money and buy a costly gift for her. You can save that money for boozing. Your girl won’t mind that until you are surprising her with innovative simple gifts.
- A passionate kiss
Yes, you are reading it right. Our ancestors said that a good start means your half work is done. I would say a passionate kiss means your half work is done. God has given girls a supreme power of understanding a guy with the way he kisses. You can’t hide your emotions in a kiss. If you are not good at that, learn the art of kissing. Some romantic moments can add up great passion to your relation. Your face can hide many things but your kiss can’t hide anything.
- Discuss your future
Though we guys hate it, girls love it the most. When they say that we will keep red curtains after marriage or on every Sunday we will go out for a dinner, don’t over look or ignore their questions by saying ‘ we still have 5 long years to go. Let’s not discuss it.’ You are screwed then. Instead debate on the colour of the curtains and which day of the week. Your girl will love that.
- Show small acts of physical intimacy and don’t regret compromises.
At times, we say love has no bounds and no limits. On the contrary, we declared February as month of love. There is no particular time to show your love and care. Express your feelings on a regular basis. Show small acts of physical intimacy – your arm around their shoulder on the sofa, your hand on their thigh when seated side-by-side, holding hands while walking down the street. Give your partner a warm feeling and convey the love and affection you feel for them. The littlest touch can be as important, as or even more important than the longest night of sexual intimacy. You may also need to compromise on some EPL matches or maybe action packed films for some romantic movies. But you should enjoy as you have your love beside you.
Now when you implement this and it don’t work then don’t mess on my Facebook wall. You can surely give a try. Things won’t get worse if you implement these. It can either remain the same or improve. Remember one thing in your life.
‘Never curse your love for not being with you. Somewhere she or he might be thinking of you and missing you as much as you do.’ – Sudeep Nagarkar
About Sudeep Nagarkar:
Sudeep Nagarkar is the bestselling author of Few Things Left Unsaid & That's The Way We Met. He has a degree in Electronics Engineering from Mumbai. His books are inspired from real- life incidents. He never dreamed of becoming an author, but turned into one for his love. Apart from writing, Sudeep is a music enthusiast and loves to spend time with his friends. Sudeep Nagarkar’s books are based on real life incidents. His first book ‘Few Things Left Unsaid’ which released last year sold above 2 lakhs making Sudeep Nagarkar one of the finest writers in India in fiction category. His recent release ‘That’s The Way We Met’ was released with huge hype all over and was an instant hit amongst the youth. His both books are topping in the best sellers lists on various websites and book stores.
Sudeep Nagarkar resides in Mumbai and has a loyal fan base who are connected with him through facebook. His books are getting translated into regional language and first book is due release in November which is translated into Marathi. He will soon interact with crowd in Bangalore literature festival to be held in December. He has given seminars in different colleges in Mumbai. His books are even appreciated by the Bollywood Legend Amitabh Bacchan.
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Aditya and Riya could never imagine life without each other. Since their accidental meeting two years ago, they have been inseparable until an unexpected tragedy promises to change the course of their lives forever. Will their love stand the test of time?
From the intoxicating rush of Mumbai and Delhi to the scenic beauty of Manali, Sudeep Nagarkar will take you on an unforgettable journey through life and love.
'Few Things Left Unsaid' by Sudeep Nagarkar is an account of how reckless and impulsive behavior can mess up your entire life. How important it is to value your love and life? The author narrates these facts of life through his protagonist, Aditya.
Few Things Left Unsaid deals with the reckless and unclear attitude confronted at a very young age. Aditya, the protagonist of the book, is one among the confused crowd. He's unclear about his ambitions or goals in life. He hates engineering from the core of his heart, but destiny has other plans for him as he ends up in an engineering college. Aditya's search for true love comes alive when he runs into Riya, but he loses her too because of his rude behavior. Life takes a U-Turn for Aditya as he doesn't know how to deal with his life now. Will he pay a huge price for messing up his life now? If he has to mend his ways, how does he do it? Aditya's reckless decisions and lack of clarity in vision mess up both Riya's and his life.
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